Sex isn't something you do , it´s a place you go, it is a space you enter inside yourself and with another...
So where do you go in sex ? what parts of you do you connect to ..?
What do you seek to express there ..?
Is it a place for transcendence and spiritual union?
Is it a place for naughtiness and is it a place to be safely aggressive?
Is it a place where you can finally surrender and not have to take responsibility for everything?
Is it a place where you can express your infantile wishes?
What comes out of there ?
Its a language, it isn't just a behaviour.. and it´s the poetic of that language what makes it so interesting ...